The Problem Of Pride
Introduction
1. Years ago Augustine named "pride" as the greatest of all sins.
- He pointed out that when man is proud he exalts himself and he displaces God.
- There is no greater sin than displacing, despising and rejecting God.
2. Pride is an insidious sin that can invade every facet of a person's life and make him obnoxious to God and others.
Pride Is Used In Two Senses
1. There is the good sense.
- Pride is synonymous with self-respect, personal dignity, seeking to do a good job.
- This can manifest itself in good job performance, good grades, good parenthood, etc.
- Manifest itself in a feeling of self-worth and appearance.
- He who has no self-respect demands no respect from others.
- One who refused to keep clean probably lacks self-respect.
- Let us make sure that the pride that we possess is the kind that keeps the chin and head up and not the nose!
2. There is the bad sense.
- Webster defines this pride as, "the quality or state of being proud: an inordinate self-esteem: conceit."
- The Bible warns that this pride is sinful. (Prov. 2l:4; 6:l6-l9; l6:5; 8:13).
- See Mk. 7:21-27; Rom. l:22; 2 Tim. 3:l-5.
- Pride is one of the channels through which Satan tempts man to sin. (l Jno. 2:15-17).
- Satan used pride in the temptation of Christ. (Matt. 4:l-ll).
- He used it in the temptation of Adam and Eve. (Gen. 3:l-6).
Pride Leads To Many Other Sins
1. Pride will prevent conversion. (Matt. l8:l-4; 5:3).
2. Pride will cause one to refuse to confess his sins.
- Some cannot humble themselves low enough to say, "I have sinned."
- We need to confess sin to God. (l Jno. l:8-l0).
- We need to confess sin to others. (Matt. 5:21-24; l8:l5-17; Jas. 5:l6).
3. Pride keeps one from doing menial tasks, from serving in some or all ways. (Jno. l3:l-15).
4. Pride will cause one to try to live beyond his means.
- This causes one to be more interested in impressing others and gratifying self than in helping others or preaching the gospel.
- This causes one to get deeply in debt and may lead to a failure to pay debts. (Rom. 12:17; l3:8).
5. Pride causes contention. (Prov. l3:l0).
- It "breeds quarrels." NIV
- The wise will "take advice." NIV
6. Pride leads to rebellion. (Psa. l0:4).
7. Pride causes the rule or ruin, boss or burst, attitude. (III Jno. 9, l0).
8. Pride leads to apostasy. (l Tim. 3:6; Prov. l6:l8; l Cor. l0:12).
- A Chinese proverb says, "He who stands on a pedestal has no place to step but off."
- Jesus warned against exalting self. (Matt. 23:11,12).
Forms Of Pride
1. Spiritual pride
- Scribes and Pharisees guilty of this pride. (Mk. 12:38,39; Lk. l8:l0-14).
- Spiritual pride causes one to trust his own virtues rather than the grace of God and the blood of Christ. (Eph. 2:8-10).
- This is a sin that both Christians and non-Christians commit.
2. Intellectual pride (l Cor. 8:1-2).
- This kind of pride causes one to look down with disdain on the unlearned, illiterate, oppressed, poor and down-trodden.
- It causes one to look down on one's parents as out-of-date ignoramuses and on the elders back home as "back-woodsey."
- It forgets that all of our mental capabilities are derived from God.
- True knowledge gives birth to humility, not conceit and contempt.
- Intellectual pride causes some to denounce God, Christ, Bible, miracles, etc.
- This is not to encourage ignorance (Jno. 8:24), for there is no premium on ignorance. (Acts 17:30; 2 Thess. l:7-9).
3. Pride of material things
- This pride causes one to trust in his material possessions, talking of me, my and mine, while forgetting that all material blessings flow from God. (l Chron. 29:12; Jas. 1:27).
- This is the pride that will cause one to strut his expensive dress or suit, show his credit cards, and drive a flashy automobile.
- See l Timothy 6:7,9; Psa. 62:l0.
- We must not be proud of our humility.
- Socrates tells of Diogenes, who lived in a tub and dressed in rags. He said, "I see your vanity through the holes in your cloak."
- Some have heard of the man who was given a medal for his humility, and then had to have it taken from him because he wore it.
4. Social pride
- This pride will manifest itself by treating the poor in a shameful way. (Jas. 2:l-9).
- This is the pride that causes men to look down on men of other races.
5. Sin pride
- This pride boasts of unethical and dishonest business deals, of lying the way out of trouble, or immoral pursuits.
- Sin should cause one to be deeply ashamed, not proud! (2 Cor. 7:l0).
6. Pride of place
- Some love to be first (3 Jno. 9, l0).
- Through pride of place James and John wanted the chief seats in the kingdom of Christ. (Mk. l0:34,35).
- If I can't be chairman, I won't serve on the committee.
- I refuse to serve without being in the limelight and receiving recognition for my work.
7. Pride of face
- It is good to keep ones body clean, and to be neat and attractive if one does not become conceited about it.
- One should not allow his or her attractiveness to treat others with disdain.
- One should not allow an unholy desire to display oneself to lead to immodesty. (l Tim. 2:9,10).
The Cure For Pride
1. God hates pride. (Prov. 6:l6-19). See Jas. 4:6.
2. Love will cure pride. (l Cor. l3:4.)
3. We must remember that we are but men. (Psa. 9:20).
4. We have no sufficiency in ourselves. (Jno. 5:30; 2 Cor. 3:5.)
5. We must avoid thinking or ourselves more highly than we ought to think. (Rom. 12:3; Gal. 6:3).
- All we are or have is from God.
6. We must walk humbly with God. (Mic. 6:8).
7. We are debtors to God and the help of others. (l Cor. 4:7; l5:10; Deut. 8:ll-20).
8. Jesus is the way to heaven. (Jno. l4:6; Gal. 6:14.)
9. We must crucify self. (Gal. 2:20).
- "I" is the middle letter in both pride and sin.
- We should strive to live like we sing "None of self, and all of Thee."
10. We must realize that pride always leads to destruction. (Prov. 16:18; 15:25; 16:5; 18:12).
- Pride led Judah into Babylonian captivity. (Jere. 13:15-17).
- The proud will be brought low. (Prov. 29:23; Psa. 18:27).
Conclusion
1. Let us work hard to cultivate the grace of humility.
2. The kingdom of heaven belongs to the humble. (Matt. 5:3).